Stop Surviving

Medical Life.

Start

Leading It.

Reclaim Control

Blueprint:

The 8-Week

Science-Based

Private Program for Physicians' Spouses Who Are Ready to Reclaim Their Peace, Identity & Connection

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You've Been the Steady One

for Too Long

You're the rock everyone leans on while your spouse's pager interrupts dinner again.

While they save lives, you save everything else, such as, the missed recitals, the solo parenting, the weight they bring home but can't talk about.

But here's what I know about you:

You're not just tired... You're tired of being tired.

Tired of your needs always coming last
Tired of feeling invisible in your own marriage
Tired of your home feeling like a to-do list instead of a sanctuary

There's a space between "I'm fine" and actually being fine.

That's where transformation lives.

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Here's What's Possible in 8 Weeks

In just 8 weeks, you'll have:

✅ A repeatable system to manage stress with confidence.

✅ Freedom from guilt and invisible burnout.

✅ Reconnection with who you are beyond "the doctor's wife."

✅ A home transformed into a nervous-system-supporting sanctuary using science-based stress-reducing art.

✅ Restored calm, clarity, and control without waiting for your spouse or your life to change first

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I Built This Because I Lived Your Story

I'm Temi Ayodeji. I've been married to my husband, an endocrinologist, for 24+ years. I'm a mother of a neurodiverse child, and I have over 20 years experience in Occupational Therapy and Human Resources Management.

I know what it's like when chronic stress quietly screams while you hold everything together.

That's why I created the Reclaim Control Blueprint™—the only stress transformation system that combines:

Mindset strategies (my proprietary A.C.T. Method)
Environmental design (Intentional Art Placement)
Science-backed stress-reducing art (proven to lower stress by up to 60%)

This isn't theory. It's lived experience + over 20 years of expertise.

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The Reclaim Control Blueprint™:

Your 3 Phase Transformation

PHASE 1: RECOGNIZE

(Weeks 1-4)
Awareness Becomes Power

Identify your real stress triggers and tackle the core challenges at the root of your overwhelm. You'll also begin to transform your home into a nervous-system-supporting sanctuary.

PHASE 2: RESHAPE

(Weeks 5-6)
Transform Your Mindset & Environment

Master my proprietary A.C.T. system. A strategic framework that puts you back in control of any stressful situation. Master how to make intentional choices that restore you in your surroundings.

PHASE 3: RECLAIM

(Weeks 7-8)
Make It Your New Normal

Develop a personalized system that ensures these changes stick, no matter what life throws your way. Stress no longer dictates your life. You dictate how you handle stress, and you have the tools to maintain your calm, clarity, and control long after our work together.

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What Changes When You Complete This Blueprint

Right now, you might wake up already tired, bracing for the day ahead.

After 8 weeks together:

✨ You wake up calm, even when chaos swirls around you.

✨ Your nervous system stays regulated because you've rewired your responses.

✨ Connection with your partner flows naturally. No more chasing attention.

✨ Your space instantly soothes you instead of reminding you of everything undone.

✨ You put yourself first without guilt, knowing your peace is essential

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This is for You If...

✅ You're married to a physician or high-stress professional

✅ You're tired of feeling invisible and overwhelmed

✅ You've tried meditation, therapy, or self-care—but nothing sticks

✅ You want a science-backed method that transforms your mindset AND your environment

✅ You're ready to invest in real transformation, not temporary tips

This Isn't For You If…

❌ You're looking for quick fixes or DIY courses

❌ You're not ready to implement strategies between sessions

❌ You're waiting for your partner to change first

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is this therapy or coaching?

This is intensive private coaching focused on your present and future. If you're in therapy, this can complement that work beautifully.

What if I'm not artistic or creative?

Perfect. The art does the work for you—no creative ability required.

What happens after 8 weeks?

You'll have your complete system, lifetime access to materials, and a 30-day check-in call. Ongoing support is available if you want it.

Do you understand medical marriages?

Absolutely. I've been married to a physician for 24+ years. This method is built from lived experience.

How do I know this will work?

If you're coachable and committed, you'll see shifts within 2 weeks. By Week 8, you'll have a system for life. Transformation is inevitable when you do the work.

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Testimonials

"As a physician, I've struggled with work-life balance for years. Temi's approach helped me protect my peace without guilt. Her art is just as healing as her coaching." —

Dr. Deslyn O., Atlanta, GA

(Physician's Wife)

"I finally have tools that work in real life, not just perfect conditions. My stress doesn't control me anymore."

— Jennifer L., Montgomery, AL

(High-Stress Professional's Spouse)

"Temi has an incredible ability to listen deeply and offer practical and profound insights. I've learned so much from her and am forever grateful."

— DeAnna S., Montgomery, AL

(High-Stress Professional's Spouse)

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